Entering China“There is no shortage of women for men who have seen the world, and women who have seen the world do not believe in men. A man who has seen the world loves only one woman, and a woman who has seen the world loves only herself! ”
Let’s start with the men who have seen the world. Shuttling in the bustling and noisy world, there is never a lack of warblers and swallows around you.
Just like Tom in “The Great Gatsby”, living in the drunken high society, he has seen countless beautiful women, and all kinds of temptations are coming to him like a tide.
Such a man has developed a pair of eyes that can see through people’s hearts in the crowd, and it seems that everything cannot escape his scrutiny. These eyes, however, almost never stop for anyone.
The prosperity of the world is extraordinary, but the desolation of the heart is like a shadow. The bustle is all on the surface of the hustle and bustle, but the desolation is deeply rooted in the heart.
They seem to have everything, but their true emotional home is hard to find. Even when you meet a woman you like, that loyalty becomes a luxury.
is like Mr. Yi in the movie “Lust and Caution”, juggling in the complex political situation and the glamorous life, with women around him.
His love is wrapped in layers of various desires and realities, and it is difficult to deliver it purely to a certain person. His amorous and disloyal hurt the women who truly loved him, and also plunged himself into deeper loneliness.
This is a kind of sadness, and it is also a helpless portrayal of this kind of man in the emotional world.
And what about the woman who has seen the world? They have gone through the mountains and rivers of life, experienced blooming and withering, and are no longer the ignorant and innocent girls they were at the beginning.
is like Zhang Ailing, who once lowered herself to the dust for Hu Lancheng, looking forward to blooming. But in the end, in exchange for a heart full of pain and disappointment.
Since then, she has understood that the depth of men’s affection is often just an illusion, and enthusiasm is just a routine. A woman who has really seen the wind and rain no longer wants to repeat the mistakes of the past and put herself so low.
They have seen the vastness of the world and understand that men are no longer the whole of life, but only supporting roles.
Just like Jane Eyre in “Jane Eyre”, after a series of trials and love setbacks, she did not cling to others, but firmly chose independence.
She clearly knows that the temperature of relying on men to keep warm is short-lived, and she is the only reliable source of fire. This awakening makes them more rational and calm in the face of feelings.
They are no longer blindly invested, but know how to love themselves first and take care of their feelings.
Those women who can withstand loneliness and survive the years will eventually live like a lotus, unstained with dust and blooming quietly.
They are alone in their own world, and they will not lose themselves because of outside interference.
In other people’s worlds, they go with the flow, don’t force it, don’t humble it.
Look at the men who have seen the world, their love is like a treasure in the deep sea, rare and silent.
It’s not that they can’t be emotional, but they have experienced too many people and things, which makes their feelings deeper and more introverted.
As Sanmao said: “If I don’t love you, my heart won’t hurt.” “Once they fall in love with a woman, they are wholeheartedly and unswervingly.
is like Jack and Ruth in “Titanic”, Jack gave all his love to Ruth in his short life. This kind of love, pure and firm, has not changed through the test of life and death.
In the world of emotions, both men and women, after seeing the world, should understand that the premise of loving others is to love themselves.
We can’t give up our principles and bottom line because of impulse or loneliness.
True love is based on mutual respect and understanding, growing together and achieving each other.
Whether it is prosperous or desolate, whether it is lonely or companionship, we must stick to the purity and beauty in our hearts in this complex world.
May we all become the one who knows how to love ourselves and cherish true love, and harvest our own happiness and warmth in the journey of life.
