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What is the most tormenting kind of relationship between men and women?

The most torturous relationship between men and women is probably that I want to entangle you and give up on you, I want to stop contacting, I can’t help but want to contact, I give up unwillingly, and there is no result when I am together.

Recently, I brushed up on such a passage: The most torturous relationship between men and women is probably that I want to entangle you and give up on you.
I want to stop contacting, I can’t help but want to connect, I want to slowly withdraw from your world, and I’m afraid that I will really lose you, I will give up and be unwilling, and there will be no result when I am together.


I figured it out in the last second, and I felt that I didn’t necessarily have to have it if I liked it, but the next second I felt that it was necessary for you.


Repeating this cycle every day, torturing myself over and over again, in fact, I understand the big truth, but it is difficult to control my emotions.


Have you been staring at the phone screen flickering in the dark in the early hours of the morning, and the text in the dialog box has been deleted, deleted.


Repeating the ridiculous cycle of blocking-adding-blocking, and sometimes I feel ridiculous.
We are all like Sisyphus cursed, and the sharpest blade is never a decisive goodbye, but this sober and sinking Ling Chi.

In the movie “Later Us”, the love between Lin Jianqing and Fang Xiaoxiao is such a heart-wrenching torture. They met, got to know each other, fell in love with each other in their youth, and worked hard together for their dreams in the big city.


However, the helplessness of life and the pressure of reality gradually cracked their love.


They quarreled and reconciled countless times, as if they were hovering on the edge of love and pain.
As the lyrics say: “If you can’t blush your eyes when you say goodbye, can you still blush”.


There are too many memories and too many emotional bonds between them, which makes Xiaoxiao want to let go of the past and start anew, but she can’t help but miss the beauty of the past, and fall into the longing for Jianqing again and again.


Man Zhen and Shi Jun in “Half Life”, their love is innocent and beautiful, but they are ruthlessly tricked by fate.


The changes in the family and the pressure from the outside world made them reluctant to separate.
Man Zhen struggled in pain, “We can’t go back”, this line expresses the despair in her heart.


She wants to forget Shijun and live again, but the bits and pieces of the past appear in her mind from time to time like ghosts.


She wants to let go of this fruitless relationship, but she can’t let go of the love that goes deep into the bone marrow, and this contradictory mood torments her day after day.

This state of not being able to love is like a never-ending nightmare.


In the last second, we may be like the Supreme Treasure in “Journey to the West”, suddenly figured it out, and felt that “liking does not necessarily have to have”, and letting go may be the best choice for each other.


But in the next second, the obsession in my heart will come like a tide, and I feel that “you have to be”.


As Zhang Xiaoxian said: “I didn’t miss you very deliberately, because I knew that I should be grateful when I met you, and I needed to let go when I passed by.” I just think of you in many, many small moments. Like a movie, a song, a lyric, a road, and countless moments when you close your eyes. ”


We cycle through such emotions every day, torturing ourselves over and over again.


I know those big truths, understand that “time will heal all pain”, and understand that “long pain is better than short pain”, but when I really face this feeling, reason is always easily defeated by emotion, and my emotions are completely uncontrollable.


We are like moths to a fire, knowing that there is pain ahead, but we still rush into it without hesitation.
Every struggle, every entanglement, is like pouring salt on your own wounds, and it hurts your heart.


I hope that one day, we will be able to say with a smile: “It turns out that what makes me toss and turn is not love, but the imagination of love itself”.

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