Entering China
Someone said: “Parents are the greatest fate of children.” ”
When you think about it, it is.
Every child is initially connected to the world through their parents.
Whether he succeeds in the future or not, whether he is happy or not, has a great relationship with his parents.
Therefore, many parents who love their children, even if they owe themselves, give the best to their children.
But no amount of foreign objects will last long; No amount of money will be wasted.
Far-sighted parents should plan for their children and give them these three things, no matter how poor they are.
will give the child a cheer, which is the child’s most confidence
Zhou Tingting, the first deaf college graduate in China, was deaf in both ears due to an accident at the age of 1 and a half.
At first, she lived in a silent and lonely world, and at one point cried and despaired.
But her father, inspired by the books, continues to encourage his children, hoping to give his daughter confidence through appreciation and education.
Even if Zhou Tingting only gets one of the 10 questions right, her father will only tick the right question.
Even if she wrote a very average Chinese composition, her father would draw the most beautiful sentences with a pen circle.
In this way, Zhou Tingting, who was constantly lifted, was disabled, but she was strong, and she had some incomparable confidence in her heart.
Later, at the age of 16, he was admitted to university, and at the age of 17, he was already giving an enthusiastic speech on the podium in the Great Hall of the People.
Zhou Tingting’s headwind is inseparable from her father’s constant support.
The writer Sanmao once said to his father: “The sorrow of my life is not that I have not earned the world, but that you appreciate me.” ”
Parents are the only audience for children when they are young.
If there is only denial and accusation again and again, it is enough to destroy the child’s life and leave a lot of scars in their hearts.
As a parent, learn to bend your index finger and not be stingy with your appreciation.
Sometimes, changing a child only requires a few gentle but powerful words from you.
When love and faith are sprinkled into children’s hearts, they will become the most confident growth and the hardest wings for them to ride the wind and waves.
Creating a harmonious home is the best temperature for children
Happy people spend their whole lives being healed by their childhood, while unhappy people need to spend the rest of their lives healing their childhood.
In 2018, Ren Changzhen, the director of “A Bite of China”, took over the documentary “My Wish” and said: “I want to film the fears of children who have been ignored by parents, and these fears are with me to this day. ”
To do this, he visited nearly 100 families.
During this period, I met my mother who was out of control and my father who sighed; or broken chairs, broken plates; and children who are always careful to please and have fear in their hearts;
“Mom and Dad often quarrel”;
“I’m scared and want to hide under the covers”;
“They quarreled loudly”;
“I often say the word ‘death’……
No child has said these words to his parents, but in front of the camera, he wishes that his parents can love each other in harmony.
“Pengsheng hemp, not upright; The white sand is in Nirvana, and it is black with it. ”
Whether a seed can take root and sprout depends on the soil.
Whether a child can be physically and mentally sound depends on the family.
For the education of their children throughout their lives, the family of origin will always come first.
As a parent, the greatest sorrow is to give kindness and tolerance to outsiders; But he left his worst temper and worst face to the people closest to him.
The ancients said: “Harmony is the foundation of the Qi family.” ”
It is better for you to raise the poor and the rich than to raise them with love.
Having something to say and something to discuss is the practice that every parent and every couple should have.
This support of mutual tolerance and love is the best education for children and the best gift for children’s lives.
Teaching children to be grateful is the greatest blessing for children
When the Wuxu Reform failed, Liang Qichao fled to Japan at the suggestion of a friend.
And his wife, Li Huixian, took the family to Macau and shouldered the burden of the family alone.
As a young lady, she is busy with farm work and household chores every day.
And Liang Qichao, who is overseas, feels very guilty in his heart, and at the same time, he is very grateful for his wife’s dedication.
So he frequently sent letters to his home, and the thin letterheads were full of Liang Qichao’s deep gratitude.
And several of his children, looking at this family letter that has crossed the ocean, have also planted the seeds of gratitude in their hearts.
Although life is difficult, no one complains of hardship, knows how to cherish everything in front of him, and moves forward step by step with peace and tenacity; He always has good thoughts in his heart and knows how to love his relatives.
And these grateful children eventually grow up and succeed in learning.
Wang Fu once said: “Life needs a grateful heart to create, and a grateful heart needs life to nourish.” ”
On the road of life, everything will not be as expected.
A child who doesn’t know how to give back will only complain about everything around him.
Children who know how to be grateful have a heart to feel the good things around them, and they also have the ability to overcome all obstacles in the world.
Therefore, far-sighted parents should know how to let their children learn to be human beings first, and should teach their children to be grateful for the love around them and love themselves and the people around them.
If there is grace in the heart, there will be happiness in life, and children who do not forget their feelings and roots can be content in gratitude, happy because of contentment, and meet their own happy life.
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Feng Zikai said: “Protecting the living, protecting the heart.” ”
The quickest way to destroy a child is to keep satisfying him materially.
And the best way to make a child is to always fill his heart.
True nurturing is always to be able to raise a child with affection in the heart and love in the heart.
This is the best blessing for a family and the greatest luck in a child’s life.
I hope that every parent can give the most beautiful gift in their children’s lives, and I hope that every child can repay their parents’ love and cherishment with a fist.
