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When people reach middle age, you must understand that people are cooperative relationships, and if you get along, you will be together, and if you can't get along, you will be separated, and you can't be separated, so try your best to keep yourself happy, comfortable, and self-consistent in this relationship!

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It is my deepest understanding and rules of doing things when I am not confused.

It’s also my response to the old question, “What should I do if I can’t live without a bad marriage?” Answer.

I’m testing it for myself.

After all, nine times out of ten, life doesn’t go as planned.

Moreover, there are many unsatisfactory things in life, and we are powerless to change, or even unable to leave, so we can only choose to accept them.

Because, we are all ordinary people, facing a lot of troublesome things, facing a lot of bad people, we don’t have the confidence and ability to turn around at any time.

Most of the time, we just have to accept it.

Accept the predicament in front of you, accept the inconvenience of living with your in-laws, accept that you and your partner are not in love and have to make do under one roof, and accept that you are obviously annoyed by the bear child during the holiday but have nowhere to go.

Neither you nor your children have nowhere to go.

My child is in the third grade this year, and many of the students in the class are sent to various camps during the winter and summer vacations, the camps with less money are in the domestic camps, and the usual small dining table is hosted if the money is not good, and the camps with more money are abroad, and the kind that starts in half a month and 20 days after half a month……

The children were happy and informed.

Parents are also happy, their children are not around, they are free, happy, and do whatever they want.

But those freedoms require a lot of renminbi to exchange.

Just like me, the whole winter vacation was ravaged by the bear children in the family, and I was half angry to death, and my husband laughed: My wife can bear with it, and I will endure it again, I will work hard to earn money this year, and strive to send the children to the camps you said next summer……

I laughed and cheered him on.

Although it was a joke, he and I both knew that our daily quarrels, annoyance, his sometimes impatience, and my occasional impatience were all because we didn’t have enough money in our family at the moment, and it was too luxurious to talk about happiness when we didn’t have enough money.

We know that the only way to solve our current remarriage life is to make money.

I am convinced of the phrase “money can solve 90% of life’s problems”.

Therefore, although my life is often a mess, I don’t care too much, because I know that the more I care about something, the more I will be tormented by something.

You allow it, you accept it, and it’s like that.

However, too many people are inseparable from and unable to accept it, and they consume themselves all day long, and they are in great pain.

Including who I used to be.

Including you now.

At this moment, what are you like reading the text?

In the new year, I want you to live as a woman who “accepts your fate”.

When I was young, I thought “resignation” was a derogatory term.

But when people reach middle age, they feel that “accepting fate” is more of a kind of wisdom.

Lin Yutang said: Because there is nothing you can do, you go with the flow; Because the heart has nothing to fear, it is at peace with the encounter. Whatever God gives you, you enjoy; Whatever Heaven takes, you accept; God is too lazy to pay attention to you, and you don’t pay attention to him.

I have been cultivating myself for the past two years, and I want to cultivate my heart wide enough and strong enough, so that I will not be afraid of anyone leaving, nor will I be afraid of the impermanence of the world, and I will not be afraid of life making things difficult for me from time to time.

When the heart is big, the matter is small.

Except for life and death, it is a trivial matter.

Many people pursue “excellence” and “success” all their lives, but forget that the real purpose of life is not excellence, but happiness.

Because, your excellence is for others to see, and only happiness is your gift to yourself.

In the past two days, I have been troubled by the news of Da S’s death, to be precise, the impact is real, the sadness is real, and it is also true that I am more sober.

No matter how good your life is, no matter how good you are, it’s just one day less than you live, so why embarrass yourself?

Why do you have to live in the obsession with the pursuit of happiness? Why do you have to be thin and thin? Why do you have to be obedient and do well in the test? Why bother to solve all the problems?

Learning to live with problems, learning to coexist with contradictions, and learning to live a self-consistent, comfortable and happy life in the life and relationships of chicken feathers in a place is wisdom.

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未经允许不得转载:Entering China » When people reach middle age, you must understand that people are cooperative relationships, and if you get along, you will be together, and if you can't get along, you will be separated, and you can't be separated, so try your best to keep yourself happy, comfortable, and self-consistent in this relationship!

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