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Five mentalities to achieve a better self

On the road to growth, there is no perfect life, only a better mentality.

On the road of life growth, it is inevitable to encounter difficulties, pain, confusion, and boredom…… It may all haunt you. Is it complaining about the twists and turns of fate, spinning in anxiety? Or do you adjust your mood and move forward steadily?


Maintaining a good attitude can turn difficulties and obstacles into steady and far-reaching help.

1.Empty cup mentality

The so-called empty cup is not to completely deny the past self, but to observe the world with new eyes, open yourself with a new experience, and create the life you want with new efforts.
A person is like a glass of water, if it is too full, it will not only overflow, but it will also be difficult to fill it with new things.


At any stage, people must learn to “clear themselves” at the right time. Clear your own preconceptions and your “inherent cognition” to zero.


When we open our hearts to new people, things, and things, life will become fuller, richer, and more exciting.

2.Dig a well mentality

A man with a shovel dug a well for water. He dug a lot of places and put in a lot of effort, but in the end they all ended in failure. I encountered difficulties here, and I couldn’t see hope, so I changed places and continued to dig. In the end, there were many holes left in the ground, but there was no trace of water. In fact, as long as he persevered a little longer, he could dig up an underground water stream.


If you want to do something, you must first give wholeheartedly. When we have accumulated enough effort, every time we dig a well, we have laid the groundwork for future success.

3.Cocoon breaking mentality

After a week or two of cocooning, silkworms will begin to try to break out of their cocoons. Struggle to break free from the cocoon, survive the suffering, and break out of the cocoon into a butterfly. Silkworms are in a cocoon, like a person in a predicament.


Learning itself is a process of breaking the original cognition, and this process is like breaking out of the cocoon, which is a process of going through pain and suffering. If you give up your efforts and strive in the process, you will never be able to experience the splendor of “breaking out of the cocoon into a butterfly”.


The edge of the sword is sharpened, and the fragrance of plum blossoms comes from the bitter cold. Only by holding the mentality of breaking the cocoon, withstanding the test, and striving forward, will life be sublimated and beauty will come as scheduled.

4.Threshold mentality

On the road to growth, success is almost not a one-time thing, but a summary after countless attempts.
Just as people who want to learn to swim will inevitably choke on water, people who want to learn to skateboard will inevitably fall, and people who want to learn boxing will inevitably get beaten. Only by constantly trying can we gradually find the right method and direction.


It is not terrible for a person to fail countless times, but it is terrible because he is afraid of failure and does not dare to try.


It’s always a dream before you set off, and it’s always a challenge after you hit the road.
Only when you cross the threshold of self-challenge will you be stronger than you were yesterday. Face yourself and move forward.

5.Sunflower mentality

In life, we will inevitably encounter some problems. When you want to give up, you might as well think about sunflowers, no matter what kind of environment they grow in, and always maintain the courage and strength to grow towards the sun.


In fact, the more you feel that you can’t persevere, the closer you are to success. Because sometimes it is precisely your heart that is afraid of difficulties that is stumped by them. As long as you adjust your mentality, no matter how far the road is, there will be a day to arrive, and no matter how high the mountain is, there will be a day to turn over.


To learn about sunflowers, where there is sunlight, go where it goes. Get in touch with more excellent people, talk more about healthy and uplifting topics, and if your heart is full of sunshine, life is full of sunshine.


On the road to growth, there is no perfect life, only a better mentality.

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